The singer explained that she thinks of difficulties as not happening to her, but happening for her and that she is always looking for the lessons they come with.

Meanwhile, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's divorce is reportedly getting messy behind the scenes as they have yet to agree on how best to manage their assets and finances without a prenup.

Lopez weighed in on her formula for overcoming "difficulties" while going through yet another divorce.

The "Hustlers" actress has had her fair share of trials this year, including navigating a broken marriage and canceling a scheduled tour.

Now, Lopez has revealed that she overcomes challenges by making sure her perspective is right.

"I think the way I get over things is not by thinking that they're happening to me, but that they're happening to me and what's the lesson to be learned at this point," Lopez said. British Vogue in a recent interview. "When I think about things that way and stay in a kind of more positive mindset about it, it's easier to accept it for the lesson it is."

"Because that's really what our difficulties in life are," she continued. "What am I supposed to learn here?"

Lopez further added that "there are no coincidences", because things do not happen "just randomly" but for a "reason".

She noted that she always asked herself, "What can I learn, and how can I come out on the other side better, stronger, more educated, and somehow evolve and grow from this point?"

The 55-year-old multi-talented entertainer recently opened up about growing up after her split from the "Argo" actor and the lessons it taught her.

"I'm thinking to myself... 'Thank you, God. I'm sorry it took me so long. I'm sorry you had to do this to me so many times. I should have learned that two or three times ago. understand,'" she recalled. while chatting Interview magazine.

Speaking about the lessons her martial ordeal taught her, she said she learned she was "capable of joy and happiness" on her own.

Truth be told, Lopez doesn't let anyone stand in the way of her happiness, and she proved that recently when an interviewer made a joke about her age.

Meanwhile, Lopez and Affleck's divorce is still dragging on and has yet to be finalized. The exes were rocked by feud rumors earlier this year when they were not seen in public together for over a month.

Lopez then proceeded to file for divorce without a lawyer in Los Angeles Superior Court, listing their initial separation date as April 26.

She also refused any form of support and asked a judge to withhold spousal support for the "Gone Girl" actor, but they have not moved forward with their divorce.

the source said In Touch Weekly that the duo is still struggling to reach an agreement months after Lopez filed to end their marriage.

"It's been six months since she filed and nothing has been resolved, it doesn't seem like they're even close to finalizing the divorce," the source said. "They both said they wanted to do it amicably and even talked a good game about wanting to break up consciously, but that plan seems to have backfired as they can't agree on how to split things, which of course affects things."

Despite their differences, Lopez and Affleck decided to remain cordial in their relationship.

According to Page Sixa source said the estranged couple plan to stay "connected" after the divorce and will look after their blended family.

"They have every intention of continuing to be in each other's lives despite not being romantically involved," the insider said. "Ben and Jennifer are still connected and communicating when it comes to their children."

Although Lopez and Affleck are still in the process of divorce mediation, sources claimed that the singer is doing well despite the end of the marriage.

Not only is she in good health, but the singer is also keen to turn the page on the past ahead of the new year and is "focused on her life".

"She's had a tough year, but she's doing well," an insider said of the mother of two, per People Magazine. "She's ready for Christmas and the new year to start."