Tyler Perry It is one of the most numerous data in Hollywood.

However, that generosity has limits, especially when threatening to his peace or business.

In a sincere conversation, the media mogul has opened about setting up financial boundaries with the family and why tough love sometimes means not to those who love most.

Perry is not a stranger to help family.

However, when the help becomes Škrt, he knows it's time to draw the line.

In discovering interviews at the Kirk Franklin's "Den from Kraljevo"" Perry shared how he used to have to reject a million dollar request.

"I had family members to get angry me because I wouldn't give them a million dollars," he said AOL.

For Perry, support should strengthen, not enable.

He recounted how he used to give his aunt job after years of sending money. However, when she did not occur regularly, Perry had to take over an unimaginable step of shooting.

"She didn't come in, I'm calling all the time, and I was like" Okay, you have to go, "he explained." Because you want me to teach you money, but you don't want to do it. You see, it doesn't work for me. "

The same philosophy of the border setting refers to Perry's style of parenthood.

With its 10-year-old son but teaches the value of responsibility through business.

"I don't believe in giving things that just take us," he explained. "It's the worst thing you can do. And I had family members that I did it because my mother was looking for me."

After the mother passed in 2009. year, Perry decided enough to be enough. He sent letters to relatives who became financially dependent on him, giving them a deadline to find the job.

"Listen, you have 60 days to become a good employee because I won't keep you backing like this," he recalled.

And the strategy worked. "Everyone has a job," he shared. "And (they weren't) even jobs they make a lot of money, but it was a job. There was something else to make them feel pride."

For Perry, the drawing boundaries do not work for cutting people, but about building something sustainable.

When entrepreneurs Derrick Hayes asked whether these difficult decisions had led to the bitterness of the family, Perry offered a metaphor that says.

"If you're trying to build a job to carry everyone in your family, it's one thing," he said. "But you need to watch (out) for family members who come in a boat in a boat when you try to cross the sea."

He advised: "Sometimes you build a boat yourself, (and say)" Everyone is waiting here on the shore. Stay here. I'll cross this boat. And then I'll be back and then I'll go back and see who's valuable. "

Perry clearly knew that no one closes the door, but he also does not call for sabotage on board.

Mogul fun acknowledges that setting these limits was not easy.

Still, he claimed that it was necessary for his growth and success.

"I want to help you build, don't be well," he said, reflected his conversation with aunt.

His goal is to offer opportunities, not for life manuals.