The actual star that appeared on the show in 2013. and 2018 revealed that he was "devastated" by the loss of her brothers, before requesting "privacy" during this challenging time.

According to a statement from the Newport Beach Police Department, Lydia McLaughlin's brother, Geoffrey Shyam StirlingHe shot after "uncooperative" during routine stops.

Toward TMZStirling allegedly drove his motorcycle along the Pacific Coast highway, in Newport Beach, when the cops pulled him.

The source claimed that Stirling became "uncooperative" with law enforcement officers, causing one of them shooting him.

Were not police injured during the encounter.

18. April, Newport Beach Police Department divided More details about shooting on their Instagram.

They explained that after the ceasing of mixing at the "highway, the West Coast", the 45-year-old became defiant and "attacked" from one of the officers.

"Shortly after the stop, Stirling became uncooperative and attacked the officer," the post was read. "During the violent alteration, Stirling managed to remove the taser issued departments from the clerk's belts and tried to use it several times against the officer. At that moment, the shooting occurred."

Other officials arrived on the stage and tried to help McLaughlin's brother be assisted before he was transported to the local hospital, where he later passed away.

The post also stated that the California Department for Justice (Doj) would conduct an internal investigation into the incident.

In a statement for TMZMcLaughlin, 44, said that she and her family sued her brother's loss.

"My family and I are devastated by the loss of my brother," she said. "We are grateful on the audit of love and support of friends, family and community. We kindly seek privacy while we mourn."

Although it has not yet explicitly dealt with news about her social media, she shared a cryptic mail on Instagram with the message: "healed broken and binding wounds."

Her "real housewives" co-star, Vicki Gunvalson, commented and offered his support to McLaughlin and her family.

"Lydia - I'm sorry to hear the loss of your brother! My heart hurts for you and your family. Peace with you," Gunvonson Wrote.

Others also grown, sending love and encouraging her path.

In the second Instagram post, McLaughlin opened with his followers about how she learned to cultivate sadness after her mother passed away.

She explained to attend a group, split, helped me curb and process grief. "

"Orange County" alum continued, "Grief can make a better or bitterness. I'm putting my whole heart turn my gravelly. I'll have a privilege to have a nice mom. She will always be my hero and my favorite."