Singer Selena Gomez and manufacturer Benny Blanco Raised eyebrows when they first gathered, especially since they kept their connection so private.

However, their new album, "I said first I love you", which was released on Friday, 21. March, gives fans a new insight into their private life for a few months after they were engaged.

Following her rollercoaster relationship with pop star Justin BieberGomez was single for a few years to work on them. During the opinion of 24. March on "Intentionally With Jayem Shetty"" Gomez admitted that "sincere doubt" was at the beginning of their relationship.

"I would say at the beginning of any almost sabotaging," Blanco admitted. "At the very beginning, in her first few excursions, she still got that trust." However, their relationship became stronger when he realized "when you start issuing someone, not just to go out, and you go out and every person I ever went out."

"You get every piece of luggage that had that person. With partners, parents, I had to find a way to build it, and not to relieve it, but to feel really believed and reversed," he added.

Although they did not use the term "love language", Blanco explained that he quickly learned that Gomez just needs a "simple text", "I'm going to this" and thinking about you "when they are separated."

"" I'll talk to you through everything you can, "" He remembers telling her. "I am aware of her forces and I am aware of her weaknesses and so what I tried to do is surround her with things they help."

"She doesn't need a lot, she's like the easiest person in the world, but I know he wants to talk to me before bed, he wants me to say" I love you "and the text if I finish somewhere late," he continued. "I know things really help especially when you're long distance."

During the same podcast episode, Gomez admitted that "reactive" in the past relationships and was not always the best in resolving the conflict.

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However, taking time for itself helped to understand what he is looking for in a relationship. "I think I'm in the past, that's why I told him all the time I wouldn't want to be with you, I just wouldn't be on the right head, and I don't think you deserve what I went before," she said.

"I learned a lot of lessons and made mistakes and I just want to be right," she continued. "So for me, it was a lesson I had to learn."

As Gomez worked on himself, Blanco worked with his therapist to create "all the things I want" in an ideal partner.

"I was like okay - it's time to get reflected, I want to have a life, I want to find a person who feels better for me. It's a giving and yin, so I wrote a list," I explained.

The first thing that was important for him found someone of his age, which meant over 30. "The other thing I wrote was I was - I know this is so easy, but it's so hard to come - to someone who is kind, compassionate and caring," he said. "I was like:" It's really three in one, but I need someone who is nice. A real beautiful person. ""

However, Gomez had no list. "I think I was honestly placed for me when I let just say," I want someone and I wish I had this, I wish I had it. "Instead, I changed my mind," I'm happy, I have to wake up and my family is healthy and I like to spend time with friends and if that doesn't always want to be mom, "I explained.

"When Benny looks at me, I don't think he sees anything, but (what) I did, and that's very rarely finding," she continued. "He knows when I feel a certain way and before I even let go of the place where it is unbearable, he has already talked to me with the spiral."

It is referred to "when you know, you know" saying, adding, "when you know, feels right." She concluded, "I think that happened to me."

It can only be a few clips of dialogue exchanged during the interview, but it is clear that the couple has not rushed into this connection. Gomez obviously took the time to think about the mistakes she made in his last high relationships and is determined not to repeat them this time.

Blanco, in the meantime, had nothing but positive things to say about his fiancé and fighting that he prevailed, which includes anxiety and depression arising from her lupus diagnosis. Despite how it can be felt in their music, it is clear that they both mature over the years and are obviously ready to put into work to be the last marriage.

In the world of famous couples that don't seem to last, their maturity is refreshing to see and serve as a long-needed compass for young couples everywhere while trying to move with the passenger of love.