Caroline The accused has made a name for himself as the Internet Griefer, a hot mess in New York City's party and most importantly, the author of several memoirs - and now he is giving Ours Dating advice.

"I think the best way to go on dates is to be four dates in one night," Kalloye, 1, said exclusively Our weekly When discussing his latest book on January 29, Guide to the life of Elizabeth Rurtzel and Caroline KolloeThe

Kalloye said, "If people go to four separate first dates in a month, lucky OursThe “You can do it one night in a month and keep the rest of the month to yourself. You can still live a lively, healthy, romantic dating life and still have time to stay alone with your cat and watch tickets ”"

If multiple dates in a single evening seem overwhelming, there is no fear - Calloo has suggestions on how to do it (for men for single girls). According to the author, if you spend an hour with these men ", it starts at 5pm, you can call it at ten o'clock in the night.

"Truly, if you are dating with women I won't do it," she added. “This is for men's dating men. All my bold, brave small soldiers there my thoughts and prayers. But listen, you have to do this. "

Revolution of Life -to -Life Guide Author Elizabeth RurtzelRemembrance of 2001 out of print Secret life Combining with Kallo's own writing and insights, readers provide some very specific suggestions for various beauty tips, lifestyle hacks, book recommendations and dating. Author of the Author "Guide" is with the artist's images Sam WestThe (Rurtzel, known for a book like his confessional memory Projak nationIn 2020 he died of breast cancer. He was 52 years old)

Kalloye rose to popularity on Instagram, but his story - and life - when he became the subject of an essay for 2019, he flew Cut "I was the Caroline Kalloy" title, wrote his ex -friend Natalie BeachWho wrote the Instagram captions of Ghost Writing Kallo and discovered that he bought thousands of fake social media followers. Also received a six-photo book agreement for a reminiscent in the headline of Kalloye School girl However, the agreement has been renewed, which means paying a $ 100,000 advance AY to its publishers.

Like Wartzel, Kallowe has lived in New York City for a decade before being transferred to Florida Susata in 2022. Kalloye said that "he always felt the five wrists away to become some bohemian, fun, cloudy, socialist wife that could finance bro that some finance bro - and put it in a box before going back.

"This is my first time I meet the men where I meet every man, I feel very confident that my life is greater than you are," he said Ours His romantic prospects in Florida. “In the patriarchy, it is a really strange feeling to be in different sex. It is different when I date women. We're on the same boat. "

Although there are specific differences between New York and Florida, there is no city limit for Kallo's dating advice.

"First, just stop if you do not have a good dating profile. I can do nothing to help you, "Kalloy says OursThe “The rest of the suggestions don't even apply because you first have a big problem for you to address first. You need to get good pictures - and for your first photo you need to actually treat yourself like a brand ""

He also said, "A dating profile is a place to flake. People think a dating profile is an opportunity to tell other people about themselves. No A dating profile is a trap and it should be effective. You're not trying to tell these people about you. "

Instead of excluding your soul in a potential dating profile, Kalloi says that strangers are the name of the game given by the "easiest, lowest hanging conversation". And he knew - he said that he didn't change his "year after year".

"These men are so dumb," he added that he added that all things that need to be tempted on a date are a "whole scientology bit".

"There is a prompt and it is like it, 'what do you like?' I just kept talking about Scientology, "explained to Kallo. “I put it in the book so that people have the real source. Everyone sends me the same message. 'Let's talk about Genu or L. Ron Hubbard Or Tom cruiseThe 'Everyone just sends me the same message and it's perfect ””

If single-and-prepared readers focus on giving "way to talk to you", "Kolloe said," instead of capturing your essence or trying to reveal yourself "to secure a date literally as easy as the following as simple as the following

"You have said this is a message that I have memorized," he said, before apologizing to anyone who had ever received his message. “I copy it and paste it. This is, 'f-, period. So hot. Period. Text me and drink this week. Phone number 'That's what you say to arrive at first. "

Kalloye encouraged us to make the aforementioned comment on "minimal sex things in their profile", "embarrassing Halloween clothing" or a meme "minimal sexuality of their profile".

"You are using the language of this bedroom and since men have a motor -shaped animal cave brain, they only see it at the beginning of the message because the wrist shows you the beginning of the message," he said. "So they are scrolling, they are looking for sex. They see the language of this bedroom. They will open your message. They will respond. "

While Scammer Author is standing behind his dating techniques, Kallo's motives are now changed that he lives in Florida and he is thinking: "To respect your career like your company, and how much do you need to understand them if they like them?" Made Ours"What I'm learning about myself is that it may be less important to me than once."

"I think I am confused about how much I gave my own intelligence," said Kalloy more. "Even if some people think I'm the most sad there, I actually think I'm quite smart and actually a kind of talent on a specific, very specific topic. I was confused by how valuable I am in myself (so) (so) I thought it was my valuable thing for a partner. This is not actually so important to me as long as I once thought it would be. "

Due to its rise in the Internet notorious, Kalli is no stranger for negative attention. In December 2024, he turned his head after claiming Sleep with LuiziThe 26 -year -old man suspected that the CEO of the United Healthcare was shot dead Brian ThompsonThe Social media users have questioned the validity of his statement. ("Really, I am still surprised what the viral is," he said Ours.)

Earlier in 2024, he headlined to claim that he did not sleep A man could read that "No Jumper" in the "No Jumper" Podcast in "two years" to refuse to leave her mustard home again During the Hurricane Milton Last October.

But now, Kalloye is happy to be a "(her) strange person in the city, though he still claims to be" happy "while in New York.

"There are things in every city that gives it worth it," he said OursThe “New York City is a place that prefers creativity. It likes the weirdball. It likes stimulation. It likes originality. It loves Chutjpa. It likes courage. It likes hurry. It chooses enthusiasm. All these things I really like about myself, I think I like the residents of New York City. And so I think when I see the city skyline, my molecules go back to place again. But it is an emotionally unstable place to survive. "

"It is the same as daily in Florida," he added. "It's just like bleach, bright white sunlight and the sound of the sea. I read my books and I do my job and never with me. When I am there I am completely retired from the plot. "

Guide to the life of Elizabeth Rurtzel and Caroline Kolloe Now is out.

Reporting by Emily Jogby